I cannot connect via RDP to a win2003 server. Terminal services say that they're started, but a netstat shows nothing to do with port 3389. Any ideas?
Incoming RDC isn't enabled by default. You need to ensure that "enable remote desktop on this computer" is checked on the computer's properties dialogue. You also need to ensure that the firewall exception is turned on too (enabling the checkbox will add this if it is not present, but I don't think it selects it by default).