So I have been using memcached with a new django app and it works great, I can serve the dynamic version of the site slighly faster than if I mirror the files to a static sever. I have this setup on a vps and started memcached with the 'memcached -d -u www-data -p 11211 -m 64' like I was told in a tutorial. I would now like to increase the memory allocation and allow my cpanel vps to access my memcached instance on my django vps, to speed up some joomla sites. How do I configure memcached to allow the other VPS to access it? I don't want to screw around with trying to install it on my cPanel VPS, as it's live and I would have real headaches if something didn't go right (plus I went with a cheap license and the company won't support me, they told me to ask cPanel and cPanel told me to ask my licenser :( ), Plus I'm already running into mysql connection troubles.
I have already tried, and I definatly can't access it from any other machine other than the vps it's running on.