Warning: I have no expertise in these matters, so I'm really sorry if this is a stupid question or I've missed some info you need to be able to diagnose the problem.
I'm trying to make changes to my 1&1 server so the site is hosted at totomerch.net, rather than totomerch.com where it's been until now. The server IP is 18.104.22.168
Totomerch.net is registered with Godaddy, and has a single @ record pointing at 22.214.171.124. It's been over 72 hours since I made this change.
In my 1&1 control panel, 126.96.36.199 is mapped to totomerch.net, and when I do a reverse lookup (http://remote.12dt.com/lookup.php) it resolves correctly to totomerch.net
Yet when I visit totomerch.net (or any sub-page) in a browser, it immediately redirects to totomerch.com
What am I missing?