Using Windows 2003
I'm connecting to a remote computer - I can restart it but I dont want to shut it down. (as i can't turn it back on)
There are pending windows updates.

What I want to do is install them then reboot the computer. Usually there is a little triangle icon in the tray (near the clock) that you can use to install the updates.
This isn't there and tickling windows update doesnt do anything either.
How can I force windows update to install what it wants to install?