I suspect there isn't, because even if you can configure your SSH client not to drop the connection, the server might be configured to do so after a specified period of inactivity, and you wouldn't be able to override that. Even if you could, if you never resume the connection, the server would be left hanging, and over time that could lead to a significant waste of server resources.
A better technique, I think, is to unmount the filesystem before suspending your computer and remount it when the computer wakes up again. The mechanism for doing so may depend on exactly how you suspend your computer - I use the tuxonice kernel and to do something like this I have a directive like
Unmount /mnt/sshfs
in /etc/hibernate/common.conf.