I am a Java geek and all around technology nerd. I am here to help you and seek answers for myself. Since there has been some confusion in the past, I'd like to inform you all that my name is not Mondain, it is a handle that I've used since the mid 1980's.
I am a core developer on the Red5 project.
For Red5 help you can post here on stackoverflow with the red5 tag or subscribe to the users list ( http://groups.google.com/group/red5interest ).
Don't get discouraged if your question is closed or you meet with resistance. There is a lot of value on these StackExchange sites and an ounce of research or due-diligence goes a long way with these folks.