I'm running OS X 10.6 Server, and I want to eject my external drive so I can do some disk maintenance such as defraging it. However when I try to eject the drive it fails saying the disk is in use. I can force eject it but that could cause corruption... How can I tell which application is using the drive and holding it open?
lsof - List of open files
At your command promt just type
sudo lsof to see a list of open files and their location and process id so that you can kill the process.
To refine it a little bit you could use
sudo lsof | grep hard drive name.
Once you have the pid
sudo kill -9 pid to kill the naughty process.
Easy way, the freeware "What's Keeping Me": http://www.hamsoftengineering.com/products/wkm/wkm.html