sshd seems to almost always try to perform a reverse DNS lookup on new connections. For hosts without a PTR entry this causes delays of 5 seconds per query. Sometimes it accepts the connection immediately, sometimes it tries to resolve once, sometimes twice. I observed this using tcpdump port 53
while trying to connect to the server. I have really no idea why it tries to lookup twice sometimes.
This seems to be a fairly frequent issue and the standard response is UseDNS no
in /etc/ssh/sshd_config. However, I already have this option set and sshd is still trying to perform these reverse lookups.
I found another suggestion here. I tried to add -u0 to /etc/default/ssh, but it doesn't seem to have changed anything.
I'm out of ideas at this point, any suggestion will be welcome.