We have the following setup:
- One web-server on Debian with PHP on the main domain, that can send emails, but must not receive. It has exim4 installed. Let's call it
- One mail server on a different machine, that is used for both sending and receiving emails. This one would be
I am only in charge of the first server, which was migrated. The second one is shared with other domains working fine. The problem is I can't make it send emails to the second one. When a user from a different domain uses the password reset option on our site, the new password is sent successfully to them, but when a
email@example.com tries it, then the first server tries to deliver the mail locally. I tried setting it to relay to
mail.example.com, but then it tries to send every single email through it, whether they belong there or not. I've exhausted the options given when I try
dpkg-reconfigure exim4-config that I could think of. Most of them I don't understand, because half the time these unix people name things the exact opposite of what they mean.